Thanksgiving as Warfare: How Gratitude Renews the Mind
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As we gather around the table this Thanksgiving, many of us are reflecting on what we're thankful for - family, health, provision, freedom. But, gratitude should be more than a seasonal feeling. What if it's a tool God has given us to rewire the brain, to help us heal from some of life’s deepest wounds and often the thoughtless decisions we make that wound ourselves and others?
If you’ve walked through the valley of addiction or experienced the devastating pain of betrayal, gratitude might not be the first thing that comes to mind. But science - and Scripture - are uncovering something remarkable: giving thanks is not just a spiritual discipline; it’s a neurological intervention.
The Science Behind Gratitude and Brain Healing
Modern neuroscience shows that gratitude literally changes the brain. A 2015 study from the University of California, Berkeley used fMRI scans to observe the brains of participants who practiced gratitude. They found increased activity in the medial prefrontal cortex-the area associated with decision-making, emotional regulation, and empathy-even months after the practice ended. In other words, the habit of gratitude has a lasting impact on the brain’s ability to manage stress and emotional pain.
Similarly, a 2003 study by Dr. Robert Emmons and Dr. Michael McCullough found that participants who kept a daily gratitude journal reported better sleep, reduced symptoms of depression, and higher levels of optimism. These benefits are crucial for those recovering from addiction, which often hijacks the brain’s reward circuitry, or betrayal trauma, which can leave the nervous system in a state of chronic hypervigilance.
Gratitude helps shift the brain’s focus from threat to safety, from scarcity to abundance. It restores a sense of agency in people who have felt powerless.
What Scripture Says About Gratitude and Renewal
Long before MRI machines and neuroscience labs, Scripture revealed the power of thanksgiving:
Gratitude is not about denying pain-it’s about inviting God into it. The Psalms are full of raw cries of betrayal and grief that often end in thanksgiving:
"I will offer to you the sacrifice of thanksgiving and call on the name of the Lord." - Psalm 116:17
Jesus Himself modeled gratitude before miracles (John 11:41), before provision (Matthew 15:36), and even on the night He was betrayed (Luke 22:19). Thanksgiving, in the Kingdom of God, is not reactive-it’s proactive, a declaration of trust.
How Gratitude Helps Heal Betrayal and Addiction
1. Gratitude calms the survival brain.
Trauma activates the amygdala-the brain’s alarm system. Gratitude engages the parasympathetic nervous system, helping the body return to a state of rest and repair. For those who’ve been betrayed, this shift is critical for learning to feel safe again.
2. Gratitude strengthens the prefrontal cortex.
This region governs impulse control and decision-making-areas compromised in addiction. Cultivating gratitude improves judgment and strengthens the very part of the brain needed to sustain recovery.
3. Gratitude rewrites the story.
Instead of defining life by what was taken, gratitude shifts the lens to what remains-or what God has restored. It gives power back to the victim and dignity back to the addict.
Three Simple Ways to Practice Gratitude This Thanksgiving
- Write a daily gratitude list.
Even just three things a day rewires the brain toward hope. Be specific: “I’m thankful for the way the morning light came through the window” trains your brain more than a vague “I’m thankful for today.” - Speak gratitude aloud-especially to God.
Prayers of thanksgiving change us. Try reading aloud Psalm 103 or Psalm 136 as a daily rhythm. - Thank someone who stood by you.
Expressing gratitude to another person activates mirror neurons, deepens relational bonds, and can be healing for both parties.
Gratitude exercises can be found in the GOLD Journal, a powerful companion to the From The Ashes series. This guided journal offers a deep dive into both the biblical and scientific approaches to healing from betrayal trauma. It helps women navigate the pain, gain clarity about his addiction, and discover what true healing requires.
Gratitude Is a Pathway to Freedom
If you’ve known the grip of addiction or the ache of betrayal, you may feel broken or beyond repair. But gratitude, when practiced daily, becomes an act of resistance-a way to say, “My pain will not have the final word.”
This Thanksgiving, let your gratitude be more than a feeling. Let it be a weapon in your healing. Let it be worship. Let it be the start of a daily practice that turns into a brain transforming pattern for life.
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind...” - Romans 12:2 (ESV)
Gratitude is not just a virtue. It’s a strategy. And in the hands of God, it becomes part of your redemption story.
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