4 Steps To Practicing Forgiveness
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4 Steps To Practicing Forgiveness

Forgiving doesn’t come easy, especially when you’ve experienced the gut-wrenching pain of betrayal. It’s especially difficult when the offender shows no remorse or willingness to change... Read Article

Jeremy Wiles

Jeremy Wiles



4 Steps To Practicing Forgiveness

4 Steps To Practicing Forgiveness

Forgiving doesn’t come easy, especially when you’ve experienced the gut-wrenching pain of betrayal. It’s especially difficult when the offender shows no remorse or willingness to change...

This Is Why Trying Harder Doesn't Work

This Is Why Trying Harder Doesn't Work

I used to think the most profound thing in the world were pulsars, quasars and galaxies. No, the most profound thing in the world is your brain...

Identity Attacked: How Satan Authors Lies

Identity Attacked: How Satan Authors Lies

Since the beginning of time, identity has been repetitively attacked. It’s impossible to reach your destiny without being secure in your identity...

Here's How Full Disclosure Can Help Heal Your Marriage

Here's How Full Disclosure Can Help Heal Your Marriage

For the person caught in adultery, one of the most harrowing thoughts is in regards to making a full disclosure to their spouse. Some rush to spill the beans, but still withhold information...

5 Pathetic Excuses For Porn Use

5 Pathetic Excuses For Porn Use

Those struggling to break free from porn experience shame and the esteem-crushing impact of their ongoing battle with sexual material. In their porn use they have become experts at secrecy, deception, and lying...

Exposing The Porn Industry: It's Not As It Seems

Exposing The Porn Industry: It's Not As It Seems

A common misconception about pornography continues to engulf the lives of many men and women. For many, they see it as harmless. What they often don’t realize is the amount of devastation that pornography brings. It starts with an introduction...

5 Ways Porn Ruins Relationships

5 Ways Porn Ruins Relationships

Porn use is not a harmless activity that only involves the person viewing the material. It impacts the man’s family, social life, employment, relationship with God, and every other aspect of his life...

8 Songs For When You’re Feeling Broken

8 Songs For When You’re Feeling Broken

Music plays a profoundly healing and deeply spiritual role in our lives. But why is that? I believe it is because we were created to worship God, in deed and in song. When we sing to God we are...

Why Man Cannot Quit Porn Alone

Why Man Cannot Quit Porn Alone

Most men like to feel independent. They want to believe that they can handle any situation on their own, from fixing a leaky faucet to solving a complex problem and like their attempt to quit porn...

Why I Brought The Conquer Series To My Church

Why I Brought The Conquer Series To My Church

We received this powerful testimony from one of our Conquer Series Leader’s who has stepped up to the challenge, taken up his sword and is leading other men to victory in Christ! I had been reading Charisma Magazine online for several years...

How To Disciple Men Into Leaders

How To Disciple Men Into Leaders

Most church leaders would agree they face a constant problem of finding men who are willing to get involved. Not just in leadership positions, but in many roles within the church. But the need for strong leaders continues to grow...

What Does Proactive Accountability Look Like?

What Does Proactive Accountability Look Like?

Every day, we’re at war with the enemy. He desires to steal, kill, and destroy and is ultimately after our souls. But because it’s not enough for him to win us over...

Corn Is Becoming A Serious Problem For Christian Men

Corn Is Becoming A Serious Problem For Christian Men

The United Nations Commission on Addictions has announced that the growth of corn use and addiction cases has reached epidemic levels. Efforts to increase public awareness of this devastating problem are being launched...

3 Traits That Make A Great Leader

3 Traits That Make A Great Leader

What makes someone a great leader? According to a study out of the University of Texas at San Antonio, the most important quality is confidence. What is Confidence? It’s important to note that confidence can sometimes be confused with arrogance...

When Trying Harder Isn’t Enough

When Trying Harder Isn’t Enough

You vowed to yourself that you wouldn’t and promised your wife that it was over. You’ve met with your pastor and confessed. And you even told a few of your closest guy friends...

How To Read The Bible Like A Conqueror

How To Read The Bible Like A Conqueror

The word “conqueror” conjures up an image of a soldier with the resolve of steel, fully armed for battle, with weapon drawn. The Bible calls us to be “more than a conqueror” in Christ. We are to be fierce in our faith...

Porn Viewing Spikes Over Christmas

Porn Viewing Spikes Over Christmas

The latest review of Google Search Trends shows that the week of Christmas brings a spike of porn related search traffic in the US every year...

Full Disclosure: Why You’re Only As Sick As Your Secret

Full Disclosure: Why You’re Only As Sick As Your Secret

Why Your Full Disclosure Is Non-Negotiable You have finally admitted to yourself that you struggle with pornography. You have even taken the first step towards overcoming porn by joining a small group that is using the Conquer Series...

Temptation Increases During Extended Times At Home

Temptation Increases During Extended Times At Home

When are men more likely to view porn? Current issue facing our society can be a trap if we do not realize we are in a battle. With more and more people now having to stay at home...

Have Yourself a Dysfunctional Little Christmas

Have Yourself a Dysfunctional Little Christmas

The author begins with enthusiasm for a grand Christmas celebration but confesses to the overwhelming stress and anxiety that accompanies the elaborate plans. Reflecting on childhood experiences, they share how Christmas became a trigger for emotional responses and a way to recreate a sense of peace. The post explores the journey of healing from past wounds, the subconscious desire to provide a perfect Christmas for their children, and the realization that perfect peace is found in Jesus, transcending the need for a flawless holiday season.

Breaking Free From Porn By Understanding Your Past

Breaking Free From Porn By Understanding Your Past

Have you ever struggled with something, and you just couldn’t manage to get free? It could be something dark, such as pornography, anger, jealousy, food addiction, a gambling problem, or excessive drinking...

Become The Dad Your Child Needs By Giving Up Porn

Become The Dad Your Child Needs By Giving Up Porn

The role of a mom and dad has always been vital to the well-being of a child. But that role has taken on a new level of intensity with the proliferation of sexually explicit content...

How To Be A Lover AND A Fighter

How To Be A Lover AND A Fighter

This post is a heartfelt message directed at men dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, offering insights from a woman who has experienced betrayal trauma. The author emphasizes the importance of a man fighting for his marriage, understanding and prioritizing his wife's healing, and actively pursuing a path of recovery and transformation. The message encourages empathy, humility, and relentless pursuit of healing and restoration for both individuals involved.

C.S. Lewis On Porn And Masturbation

C.S. Lewis On Porn And Masturbation

C. S. Lewis (1898-1963) was one of the most famous and prolific Christian writers and scholars in modern history. His popular writings include The Chronicles of Narnia, The Screwtape Letters, Mere Christianity, and...

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