Do I Really Have To Tell My Wife Everything?
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Do I Really Have To Tell My Wife Everything?

Simon still struggles with a secret he has kept for over 15 years. One night after an office party, he had sex with a female co-worker. Now he still wonders if he would need to tell his wife about the affair... Read Article

Kayla Sullivan

Kayla Sullivan



Do I Really Have To Tell My Wife Everything?

Do I Really Have To Tell My Wife Everything?

Simon still struggles with a secret he has kept for over 15 years. One night after an office party, he had sex with a female co-worker. Now he still wonders if he would need to tell his wife about the affair...

Creating A Masterpiece Out Of The Broken Pieces

Creating A Masterpiece Out Of The Broken Pieces

The pain of betrayal is something that is not commonly understood, until you’ve walked the journey. There are so many unanswered questions that swirl through one’s mind when a husband’s infidelity and porn addiction is first discovered...

What The Media Won’t Tell You About The Sexual Revolution (VIDEO)

What The Media Won’t Tell You About The Sexual Revolution (VIDEO)

The ‘Sexual Revolution’ is widely viewed as one of our culture’s great achievements. Supporters rejoice in the freedom to do whatever pleases them sexually. They even say science proves it’s a basic part of human nature. But...

Testimony: One Man's Desperate Attempt To Find Healing

Testimony: One Man's Desperate Attempt To Find Healing

Our testimony holds great weight and power, especially to someone who is in the valley looking for an ounce of hope to carry them through. In the battle for sexual purity and integrity...

4 Steps To Practicing Forgiveness

4 Steps To Practicing Forgiveness

Forgiving doesn’t come easy, especially when you’ve experienced the gut-wrenching pain of betrayal. It’s especially difficult when the offender shows no remorse or willingness to change...

This Is Why Trying Harder Doesn't Work

This Is Why Trying Harder Doesn't Work

I used to think the most profound thing in the world were pulsars, quasars and galaxies. No, the most profound thing in the world is your brain...

Identity Attacked: How Satan Authors Lies

Identity Attacked: How Satan Authors Lies

Since the beginning of time, identity has been repetitively attacked. It’s impossible to reach your destiny without being secure in your identity...

Here's How Full Disclosure Can Help Heal Your Marriage

Here's How Full Disclosure Can Help Heal Your Marriage

For the person caught in adultery, one of the most harrowing thoughts is in regards to making a full disclosure to their spouse. Some rush to spill the beans, but still withhold information...

5 Pathetic Excuses For Porn Use

5 Pathetic Excuses For Porn Use

Those struggling to break free from porn experience shame and the esteem-crushing impact of their ongoing battle with sexual material. In their porn use they have become experts at secrecy, deception, and lying...

Exposing The Porn Industry: It's Not As It Seems

Exposing The Porn Industry: It's Not As It Seems

A common misconception about pornography continues to engulf the lives of many men and women. For many, they see it as harmless. What they often don’t realize is the amount of devastation that pornography brings. It starts with an introduction...

5 Ways Porn Ruins Relationships

5 Ways Porn Ruins Relationships

Porn use is not a harmless activity that only involves the person viewing the material. It impacts the man’s family, social life, employment, relationship with God, and every other aspect of his life...

8 Songs For When You’re Feeling Broken

8 Songs For When You’re Feeling Broken

Music plays a profoundly healing and deeply spiritual role in our lives. But why is that? I believe it is because we were created to worship God, in deed and in song. When we sing to God we are...

Why Man Cannot Quit Porn Alone

Why Man Cannot Quit Porn Alone

Most men like to feel independent. They want to believe that they can handle any situation on their own, from fixing a leaky faucet to solving a complex problem and like their attempt to quit porn...

Why I Brought The Conquer Series To My Church

Why I Brought The Conquer Series To My Church

We received this powerful testimony from one of our Conquer Series Leader’s who has stepped up to the challenge, taken up his sword and is leading other men to victory in Christ! I had been reading Charisma Magazine online for several years...

How To Disciple Men Into Leaders

How To Disciple Men Into Leaders

Most church leaders would agree they face a constant problem of finding men who are willing to get involved. Not just in leadership positions, but in many roles within the church. But the need for strong leaders continues to grow...

What Does Proactive Accountability Look Like?

What Does Proactive Accountability Look Like?

Every day, we’re at war with the enemy. He desires to steal, kill, and destroy and is ultimately after our souls. But because it’s not enough for him to win us over...

Corn Is Becoming A Serious Problem For Christian Men

Corn Is Becoming A Serious Problem For Christian Men

The United Nations Commission on Addictions has announced that the growth of corn use and addiction cases has reached epidemic levels. Efforts to increase public awareness of this devastating problem are being launched...

3 Traits That Make A Great Leader

3 Traits That Make A Great Leader

What makes someone a great leader? According to a study out of the University of Texas at San Antonio, the most important quality is confidence. What is Confidence? It’s important to note that confidence can sometimes be confused with arrogance...

When Trying Harder Isn’t Enough

When Trying Harder Isn’t Enough

You vowed to yourself that you wouldn’t and promised your wife that it was over. You’ve met with your pastor and confessed. And you even told a few of your closest guy friends...

How To Read The Bible Like A Conqueror

How To Read The Bible Like A Conqueror

The word “conqueror” conjures up an image of a soldier with the resolve of steel, fully armed for battle, with weapon drawn. The Bible calls us to be “more than a conqueror” in Christ. We are to be fierce in our faith...

Porn Viewing Spikes Over Christmas

Porn Viewing Spikes Over Christmas

The latest review of Google Search Trends shows that the week of Christmas brings a spike of porn related search traffic in the US every year...

Full Disclosure: Why You’re Only As Sick As Your Secret

Full Disclosure: Why You’re Only As Sick As Your Secret

Why Your Full Disclosure Is Non-Negotiable You have finally admitted to yourself that you struggle with pornography. You have even taken the first step towards overcoming porn by joining a small group that is using the Conquer Series...

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