Is your wife’s anger biblical or just emotional? Discover if her response to betrayal is both scripturally sound and scientifically proven to be a trauma reaction. Learn how to help her heal, rebuild trust, and restore your marriage after porn or infidelity through biblical truth and practical recovery tools.

Betrayal trauma is real - brain science prove it. Help your wife heal from the pain of porn & infidelity with a Christ-centered plan. If you don't help her heal - the marriage won't survive.

If you're in recovery from porn or sex addiction—especially through the Conquer Series - you’ve likely asked: “Does my wife have the right to look at my phone?” This question isn’t just about privacy - it’s about trust, transparency, and healing the damage done by secrecy. In this blog, we unpack what radical accountability looks like, why transparency is essential to rebuild trust, and how tools like the Accountability Tracker and From the Ashes can support both your recovery and her healing from betrayal trauma. Freedom starts with honesty. Let this be your next step.

Betrayal trauma can feel like the end - but it's not. From The Ashes and the GOLD Journal help women find clarity, healing, and hope after infidelity, addiction, or deception.

No matter where you are on your recovery journey, temptation can strike -especially when you’re stressed, tired, or alone. The good news? Thanks to neuroplasticity, your brain can literally rewire, empowering you to break old patterns and build new pathways toward freedom. Discover 5 essential tips to help you fight temptation and stay on course.

Dr. Doug Weiss’s new course, "Finding Grace After Abortion," offers profound insights and hope for those dealing with the aftermath of abortion. It provides a pathway to healing and self-forgiveness, especially for Christian women who struggle with isolation, guilt, and spiritual crisis. The course emphasizes that abortion does not define a person and includes actionable steps for healing, encouraging community support through groups. The perspective that the baby is an eternal soul provides hope and the promise of future reunion, transforming pain into anticipation and reassurance.

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The National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE) staunchly opposes corporations profiting from sexual exploitation, advocating for change through initiatives like The Dirty Dozen List, which exposes companies promoting pornography and sex trafficking. While some corporations have improved their policies after being listed, others continue to contribute to the issue. NCOSE urges individuals to take action, educate themselves and their families about the dangers of pornography, and seek healing through resources like the Conquer Series.

The post emphasizes the importance of understanding a woman's perspective in saving a marriage, particularly in the context of betrayal and addiction. It stresses the need for men to actively fight for their marriages by prioritizing their wives' healing and pursuing their own recovery from sexual sin. The two main points highlighted are understanding the wife's pain and helping her heal, and pursuing personal healing and freedom from addiction. It encourages men to take concrete steps towards these goals and emphasizes the transformative power of humility, empathy, and commitment to the marriage.

The post highlights the destructive nature of resentment on our mental and physical health, emphasizing the importance of conquering it. It provides eight methods for overcoming resentment, including acknowledging it, challenging distorted thinking, and practicing forgiveness. The post also encourages using personal pain to help others and emphasizes the transformative power of gratitude and forgiveness in healing.

The post emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries for emotional, physical, and spiritual health. It discusses how boundaries define personal values and protect individuals from enabling toxic behaviors. Using examples from Jesus's teachings, it underscores the need to establish boundaries to uphold righteousness and facilitate repentance. Additionally, it highlights the importance of focusing on God's approval rather than seeking validation from others.

The post emphasizes that marriage isn't solely about personal happiness but rather about serving each other and understanding God's plan for marriage. It suggests that selfish behaviors and neglect of serving each other can lead to a stale relationship. To spice things up, the post recommends prioritizing date nights, breaking out of routine, and prioritizing physical affection to strengthen the relationship. Ultimately, serving each other selflessly is crucial for a fulfilling marriage.

Simon still struggles with a secret he has kept for over 15 years. One night after an office party, he had sex with a female co-worker. Now he still wonders if he would need to tell his wife about the affair...

Beads of sweat began to gather on his brow, soon they splashed onto the keyboard in front of him. Many times he had sat there, tormented by his pain...

The pain of betrayal is something that most people do not understand. It’s like a bomb exploded not only in your life, but also in your heart. Everything you have known and trusted has now been exposed...

The pain of betrayal is something that is not commonly understood, until you’ve walked the journey. There are so many unanswered questions that swirl through one’s mind when a husband’s infidelity and porn addiction is first discovered...

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The ‘Sexual Revolution’ is widely viewed as one of our culture’s great achievements. Supporters rejoice in the freedom to do whatever pleases them sexually. They even say science proves it’s a basic part of human nature. But...

Our testimony holds great weight and power, especially to someone who is in the valley looking for an ounce of hope to carry them through. In the battle for sexual purity and integrity...

Forgiving doesn’t come easy, especially when you’ve experienced the gut-wrenching pain of betrayal. It’s especially difficult when the offender shows no remorse or willingness to change...

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For the person caught in adultery, one of the most harrowing thoughts is in regards to making a full disclosure to their spouse. Some rush to spill the beans, but still withhold information...

Those struggling to break free from porn experience shame and the esteem-crushing impact of their ongoing battle with sexual material. In their porn use they have become experts at secrecy, deception, and lying...

A common misconception about pornography continues to engulf the lives of many men and women. For many, they see it as harmless. What they often don’t realize is the amount of devastation that pornography brings. It starts with an introduction...

Every day, through ConquerSeries.com, we hear difficult and messy stories. Stories where...

Porn use is not a harmless activity that only involves the person viewing the material. It impacts the man’s family, social life, employment, relationship with God, and every other aspect of his life...

Music plays a profoundly healing and deeply spiritual role in our lives. But why is that? I believe it is because we were created to worship God, in deed and in song. When we sing to God we are...

Have you tried everything you know to do, and yet you still cannot seem to get free from the grip of porn? You’ve cried, you’ve prayed, you’ve smashed your computer in the driveway...

Most men like to feel independent. They want to believe that they can handle any situation on their own, from fixing a leaky faucet to solving a complex problem and like their attempt to quit porn...